Relationships

A post less than a month since my last one? What madness is this? But hold on, I actually have news, good news!

So after my birthday I had a Doctors appointment, then Sarah paid for me to go up to Birmingham to visit her and the girls. So I went up there Friday and stayed until Wednesday as I was due back at the Doctors on Thursday (they wanted blood). Had such a good time, was nice to see Sarah and the girls settled in their own place, and it was amazing being back in Birmingham! Even if my Pokemon hunt was unsuccessful with the services being down that weekend. Anyway, I headed home Wednesday, with my Doctors appointment Thursday morning, and Sarah having another friend, also called Sarah, coming to visit that day for a week.

That Wednesday evening, Sarah (the friend of Birmingham Sarah), added me as a friend, with us both being friends of Sarah, and both being from Oxford, the original Sarah thought it would be nice if we got to know each other. She cares about me, and is worried I will never see anyone now she's moved to Birmingham, and she knows I never go out. Anyway... we start chatting etc... a week passes and she leaves Birmingham to visit family in Lincoln for a week. We continue chatting... A lot... About everything and anything. This is unusual for me, we all know how shy I am in the real world, especially with people I've never met before! But I was different with her, confident, open, etc. I can't explain it.

Her week in Lincoln got cut short and came home Monday. I went to visit her the Tuesday, another thing I would never usually do, and it went really well. She then visited me Wednesday, and we kissed... She then visited Thursday, and stayed the night, and adult things happened that I refuse to go into depth with....

Besides Saturday, where I spent the day with Lottie, Hannah and Frazer, we haven't spent a day apart. I stayed at hers Saturday night, and everything is really nice. Despite wanting to take things slow, we are in a relationship, and people now know, and everything is good.

Sarah has 2 kids, Harmony is 12, and a spitting image of her mum, at least in looks. Although I think she's been pushed into growing up a bit too quickly, and although she tries to accept it, she's still trying to hold onto her childhood. Time will tell how that goes, but she likes me and we get along really well, so no problems on that front. There's also the 2 year old Kameron. He's adorable, and reminds me of me (pre being ill). He's such an adrenaline junkie, climbing everything, jumping off things, bouncing around etc. It's mostly funny, but can be a strain at times, especially when I'm not feeling too good. Both are from different dads, but neither are around, and Sarah does a good job of looking after them. Hopefully I can be around long enough to have a positive role on their lives.

Sarah hasn't really seen the bad side of me yet... the mood swings, the depression, the pain etc. I was in a bit of pain Saturday morning and she saw what that was like, but it was no where near my worst. I'm just hoping she can put up with me. As for her, I haven't smiled this much in years. Her, and even the kids, make me really happy. Could really do with a babysitter though, some alone time would be nice. The only family she has left in Oxford is her mum and step-dad, but they are both too ill to look after the kids for any long period of time. She also doesn't have that many friends. She doesn't do drugs, or smoke... except around me... She quit for 6 months and rarely smokes now, but with me around she's started again.

As for other things, she can't cook, or so she says. Only meal she's made me was a salad, which was OK, but with me around, she doesn't need to cook anyway lol She's also pretty tidy, which is good! She's shorter than me, with red hair... can't complain! Not the best looking, but I've had a LOT worse, and she's still really pretty so its all good. She's also a year younger than me, so still younger, but no more big age gaps. The sex is also amazing, even if its a bit vanilla at the moment. We've spoken about it, and she's willing to try stuff, but that will have to wait until we are kid free. Lets hope this is the last relationship for a while, and it all works out! I need this after 5 years of being single.

In other news, not much happening. Had my left eye laser surgery, and next Saturday I am back up the hospital for the tests on my feet with neurology. Also on my final paper for uni which is due in September. All the other assignments have been finished and marked, all the tests done and finished. Pokemon Go is going well, caught 58 and seen 60 so far. May have to go out soon on another hunt. Anyway... That's it for now :)

Peace x